First of all, you have to establish that you and your
in-laws want the same thing-which is the happiness of the person you
both love- your husband and their son or your wife and their daughter,
but you all are going about it, from different points of view and this
can lead to communication breakdown.
The key is
for you to bear in mind that your in-laws are not “difficult” people,
but just different. Keep the success of your marriage as your major goal
while trying to build a cordial relationship with your in-laws.
Secondly make up your mind not to win the war and lose your marriage.
Any trait you easily identify in others is also in you. It is called the mirror principle.
Here are some tips that can help you win your in-laws over.
