The incessant clashes between wives and mothers-in-law caused the nickname 'Monster-in-law' to be created.
Humans are generally protective of their loved
ones especially when the get the idea that they stand to be replaced by
someone else.
This attitude in many people causes them to be overprotective and meddlesome, often leading to clashes over the third party.
Mother-in-laws
and wives are no exceptions to this territorial display. The age old
clashes of Mothers-in-law and wives might have even been the reason the
word 'Monster-in-law' was coined.
Anyway,
a lot of wives find it increasingly difficult to live with their
mothers-in-law, while many women out of affection, want to spend time
with their married son, especially when is he is either a beloved one or
the only child.
Seeing how this has caused
clashes between the two parties, wives and mothers-in-law tend to avoid
having to put up with each other, maintaining a safe distance while
retaining a relationship with the man.
This is not
to say all mothers-in-law and wives always go at each other at every
chance they get. A lot of families especially the more social African
communities tend to have the mothers-in-law and wives coexist
peacefully, even forming a bond like mother and daughter.
This
therefore proves that it's a usually a case of personality and
difference of opinion that makes the women clash, and not because of
their roles in the life of a man.
That being said, what is your opinion? Can you live with your mother-in-law?
Let's find out what some ladies have to say.
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